To Uncover the Phenomena

All of traumatic events in people who experience it. Trauma can be large or small, readiness of these men. Trauma so it can be said of an event without explanation because of the trauma depends on the readiness of the respective individuals.
If it has people high readiness then the individual will be ready to face the problem that happened without causing trauma that is bad for the individual. But if the individual is not ready then the resulting flavors are not comfortable in these individuals, leading to a bad injury on the individual soul.

Let's take an example, student A and B will exam, a student studying hard for exams later success and student B did not learn. The student who already has the readiness to learn was going to be easy to do exams without the discomfort and anxiety, so that students are only having or not at all traumatic in itself. And for student B, because he did not learn so he could not do my exam questions, he would surely find the answer from his friend, he would feel uncomfortable, scared, and especially when he was a lecturer when he was caught cheating and he should not take the test again, the trauma will be felt very big.

Therefore, if we do not want to get a big trauma, then we need some criteria that needs to do is:
1.Readiness
The example above, that readiness very important that we avoid the trauma.
2.Motive of activities conducted
3.Attitude us against these activities
4.Spirit to perform these activities
5.Contecs or state
6.Explanation